Soulmates are special, and there is nothing more fulfilling than meeting him or her in life. And yet, are you possibly getting what you want but not what you really need? The moment has come to think about what you really want and need in a partner.
Here are 7 truths every soulmate should know to be able to evaluate the level of your happiness and possible compromises.1. Your soulmate enhances you and fills the missing pieces of your life.
As opposed to what many people believe, a soulmate is not someone who makes you whole. They do not compete with your abilities, contribute to your goals, and develop you as a person instead. Settling for someone who expects you to sacrifice your identity isn’t a true soulmate connection.
2. Soulmates make you want to be better than you are.
Real soulmates challenge you to grow out of your shell. They help you to strive for being the best, not by pointing out your weaknesses but by motivating you. If the person you are with does not inspire you, then you are just making do.
3. They have similar values as you do.
The fact is soulmates don’t necessarily have to have similar opinions, but they do have similar values as you. Whatever it may be—integrity, loyalty, or ambition—these core values should be in sync. A misfit in either of these areas results in long-term dissatisfaction.
4. Communication Feels Natural and Honest
To have a soulmate means that a person can understand you without you having to say anything. There are no barriers to expressing your ideas and feelings as you expect no criticisms. If you’re always tiptoeing around or not being able to have difficult discussions, then it might be time to rethink the relationship.
5. Your Happiness Feels Equally Important
Soulmates know that your well-being is as important as theirs and vice versa. They try to know what you want and come halfway in trying to provide it. If you feel like you are being ignored or not valued, then you may be settling.
6. It is perfectly okay to be yourself.
Dating a soulmate is the best thing one can ever imagine because you do not need to pretend anymore. They take you as you are with no need to change your attitude or behavior. If you are faking being someone you are not in order to avoid conflict, then it is high time you wondered whether the relationship is healthy for you.
7. There is a great sense of serenity within you.
Love can be passionate, full of chemistry, but a soulmate relationship will bring calmness and safety to the heart. If your relationship is full of drama or if the future of the relationship is unsure, then it’s a sign of trouble.
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